PS. this is a personal blog. Diko po hinihiling basahin niyo. :) I did this because i just want to share things about us and how this relationship changed us. ♥
HIM AND ME
“True love stories should never have a happy ending, because true love stories never end.”
I’ve explained how we’ve met and other details about our relationship in this blog: http://rizzaaabtw.tumblr.com/post/21776378237
So, Here how it all goes…
Like other youths, We’ve also met through communication like mobile and internet.
I’m a freshmen student and he’s a junior high school student from both schools. 2011 Summer become memorable for both us dahil dito na rin kami nagkakilala at nag grow nang feelings. School started… He courted me.. and i fell.
June 26,2011 — Sunday, 9:20 pm. I finally said yes. Yeah, i know, ang awkward at parang panget, kasi sa text ko sha sinagot plus, months palang kami nagkakilala, but we can’t blame anyone for falling in love easily diba? Sabi nga, “A relationship is not based on the length of time you have spent together, it is based on the foundation you’ve built together.”
And yeah, i’m making this blog today, May 5,2012. and we’re still holding on in each other’s promises. Madami nagsasabi, Promises are half lies. In my opinion? No. They’re half expectations. Behind every promises and the person who promised something to another, is their partner who’s expecting and holding on to their partners promise because they TRUST each other. TRUST, Importante daw to sa isang relasyon. Pero, hindi lang naman PAGTITIWALA ang importante. HONESTY, LOYALTY & UNDERSTANDING. HLU for short, lagi namin nireremind to sa isa’t isa pag nakakalimutan or example pag may hectic schedule tas mga mga dapat muna tapusin sa school bago communication namin, Understanding lang. Pag selos naman , both Loyalty and Honesty and pinapairal namin at pinapaalala sa isat isa. Openess, importante den. I think ang problem lang samin ay… hmm… wala. hahahaha. Joke, cguro sa time lang namin at ang pagiging illegal relationship namin sa father side ko. Every relationship namn siguro nagkaka problem diba? Bsta dpat may trust lang sa partner. He’s very close to his mother, he treats her as parang barkada lang talaga, i remember nung pinakilala nya ko sa mama niya sabi nia sken: “Mahal, lola ko nga pala” tas nagtawanan pa kami. I think kung si mama sinabihan ko nun, she shouldve scolded me right in front of him. hahahaha! Tska every girl’s parents naman want a decent boyfriend diba, at yung maayos mong ipapakilala. Duh, babae ka eh? Hahahaha. He really loves his mama, ayaw niyang may ibang nattake advantage sknya, nagagalit sha, plus, gusto pa daw niya suntukin. hahahaha. His kuya naman, They’ve been playmates since child pero pag daw nag away to, suntukan kung suntukan. Oh boys nga naman.. hahaha! His papa, madalang lang sha magkwento sken bout his papa eh, all i can say is, Jio can’t see the brighter side ng relationship niya sa papa niya. (kinda personal eh, sorry) He’s a quiet guy on the outside but has a lot of something to say on the inside. Andaldal neto saken. =))) 10 months ba naman?! bale, 85% nang binubuo naming relationship ay nanggaling sa text, Malamang sa alamang, di kami nauubusan ng topic, Mehehehe. While the 15% pag magkasama kami sa school every free time. A bass guitarist guy and a music lover, a Christian and a very “palaban” yet very lovable guy. He’s past love life haven’t worked out so well, he said ang pinakamahaba daw niya DATE na relationship is 6 months, freshmen palang sha nun and yeah, he fell offcourse then, nakipag break up daw yung girl sakanya dahil nakukulangan sila sa time and dahil may gusto na ding iba yung girl. So, dun nag start ang pagiging conservative niya sa time namen. Ayaw na ayaw niya nakukulangan kami time dahil daw ayaw niya maulit yun and you know what he does? Every tuesday and Thurday, i have practice for singing. ang class ay natatpos ng 3:40. practice namen, 4:00-5:00.And naghihintay sha sa labas ng room na pinapprasan namen. i remember, seing him sitting alone in the dark side floor of the corridor. 5:00 pm na po nun, and he insisted na ihahatid niya ko. So, sa jeep sabay kami kahit pa different way ang uwian namin hinatid padin niya ko. :”> Siya pabalagtas ako pa marilao. Sha sa left ako sa right. And dun nagstart na lagi niya ko ihahatid hanggang sa sakayan ng tricycle samen. :) Kahit gabihin sha wala shang paki mahatid lang ako sa sakayan. That made me realize na he’s really serious sakin. and hindi lang yung times na yun eh.. kahit yunng simpleng hihintayin niya ko sa labas ng room dahil may ginagawa pakong project, plus, yung tatakasan nia mga ka group mate niya pag breaks kasi time namin yun, which is cause nang pinapagalitan ko sha at pinapabalik sa project nila pero in the end, talo ako. hahahaha! Tambayan lang naman namen ang corridor sa tapat ng room namin at gilid ng stairs. Lagi nagkkwentuhan at di nauubusan ng pagkkwentuhan. AKO PA. mauubusan ng kwento? Na-ah-ah. ;) Kahit simpleng gumagapang lang na langgam napapansin at kinukwento ko eh. I’ve challenged him one time na to tell me 100 reason why he loves me everday, pero 15 palang, waleeey na. ahahahah! then, i realized that love don’t need reasons. You just feel it naturally. 4th grading, our english teacher, made us a project. An essay. And it’s a reflective essay, it means that our essay needs to be something from our past and we’ve experienced. First, you need to have an thesis statement, it is the road map of the essay and the one who or what will be talked about. Mines this, “The first time i fell in love i knew that my life would never be the same again” and our relationship to accomplish writing my essay in the night before the deadline and it gained me high grade. My teacher even grabbed my project and haven’t returned it back because she said she will be using it for a sample for the next batch. I just felt so proud and inspired.
and i wish all the best for us and may God be center in all of this.. ♥ ♥ ♥
—Rizza. ♥
10TH MONTH
10 months of Happiness
10 months of Sorrows
10 months of ups and downs
10 months of hurts
10 months of love.
10 months and going strong.
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Ambilis po nang panahon. Yeah. 10 months. Can’t believe.
It all started when his cousin aka my batch mate and my 5th grade classmate courted me. Back when april- may 2011 his cousin courted me and never talked to me again. Hahahaha. ayos noh? Tagal na nun. Pero i can’t deny the fact na naffall nko sa cousin nia pero pinigilan ko kse i know na immature pa yun, which is ayaw ko. Then, i accidentally got jio’s number from his cousin kase nung nakitext sha dun date. And yeah, it all began with a simple text, just like the other youth. He has a girlfriend that time and we’re just friends at first then nung everyday na kme may communication and his gf is like playing around, our feelings grew into crush. Ang corni noh. hahahaha. K. Pero isang gabi, habang katext ko sha, nag open up kami, and nagkaaminan na nga. hahaha! Many times i tried to let him go dahil nga ma gf sha and i don’t want to ruin their relationship but he keeps on saying no and letting me stay. June 6, after the day of their monthsary, her gf broke up with him and shempre bilang “FRIEND” damay damay din. and that night, we enjoyed talking sa phone hanggang umabot ng 1 am. hahaha! Ako po tumatawag sknya. hahahahha! -____- anyway, yun nga. and that night din nagtext again gf nia and ewan prang nakikipag balikan uli? the same day ha. Humihing advice sken, sbe ko sha bahala, and he rejected her. Sabi nia, he thinks immature pa din yun girl. And he started courting me na, everyday, 24/7, Katext ko to. HAHAHA, Then, June 26 at 9 pm. Puff! My life changed. First boyfriend ko sha, and we’re legal sa parents nia and sa mom ko, except for my dad, for some reasons. Andami nangyari sa nakaraang 10 months na yun, and i’m thankful kase he keeps on proving me na hindi niya ko lolokohin. Sana nga. *grin* Paalam! Yun lamang, BOW. :)
(Source: kjakerz, via threeshamei)
